Life Advice from a 96-Year-Old
This is a video well worth watching, not least for the speaker’s understanding of her 100th decade as a way to relive her childhood–or more specifically, to live the childhood she wishes she had had. “I’m having my second childhood now, my happy childhood,” she says. “I had a miserable childhood. I did not enjoy being a child….So I have fun now. I’m enjoying my childhood, finally.”
I love the idea that we are not limited to the childhoods we actually had. That we can revisit that intense, passionate, fresh, joyful and rage-filled and awe-filled time, as we wish. That we can do it better, if we want to.
And children’s literature gives us a gateway to do that. Those of us who had lonely childhoods can read about life-changing best friendships. Those of us who were (oh, perhaps) a bit bored can read about wild adventures. Those of us who felt powerless or helpless can find stories of undaunted heroes.
Childhood never leaves us, or rather, we never leave it. Maybe, as the speaker of this video suggests, we grow not away from our childhoods, but toward them–if we’re lucky, coming full circle.
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Do you need a suggestion for your next read? Personally, I’ll often suggest something by Terry Prachett, Hilary McKay, or Megan Whalen Turner (or if I’m feeling old school and in the mood for a classic mystery, Dorothy Sayers or Josephine Tey.) But if you need another idea….try this.
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Lovely day last Saturday for the Camden Book Fair by the Sea. So great to hang out with Amy and Stephanie next to what has to be the prettiest library on earth!
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Is there anything worse? (Well, yes, plenty of things are worse…but writer’s block is pretty bad.)
I often hear people define writer’s block as not being able to come up with any ideas. But I find that I’m not actually bereft of ideas…it’s just that my critical, editor’s brain swoops in each time and declares each idea unworthy, dull, impossible, or idiotic before I can even get it down on paper.
What to do? Mostly, trust that unworthy, dull, impossible, and idiotic first drafts often turn out to be reasonably decent second drafts. Set a number of pages I need to finish before I can quit for the day, no matter how bad they are. And remember that I’m not trying to out-Shakespeare Shakespeare….I’m just trying to get to the end of the story I’m attempting to tell.
(It has witches, familiars, and poetry in it. I’m hoping it’s nowhere near as idiotic as it feels right now.)
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